Hi Beti,
I don't ever go to chat, so I don't know about that, but wanted to say that I think you have every right to be here even though you are remarried.
I wanted to say that when I went to the DivorceCare class group at my local church the leader/facilitator of the group was also remarried. As a matter of fact she had been remarried for like 20 years. But she said that divorce remained close to her heart because of her past experience of being divorced and she chose to help other people as they went through the unfortuante event..
So I just wanted to give you an example that you should be here if you want to.