Omg, ana and bea are ???? Lol. Just kidding.
Bea, could it be that part of it is less than people are trying to make snarky, sarcastic comments and more that you're interpreting that way.
I know that, in my own case, some time ago, I posted something that was near and dear to my heart and had little or nothing to do with you but you took it as a personal attack on you and your marriage and, while I'm sorry if you were hurt by it, that was in no way my intent. I was simply sharing my own experience, trying to give some balance to something that you posted. The last thing I wanted to do was to criticize you, your parents, or your husband. Quite frankly, I think that I overreacted emotionally to your response. I think that's what you did as well to my post. Instead of looking at what I actually said, you took it as I was implying something about you or your family which I was not.