Aimes u are so right as usual. There should be dating when one feels comfortable in ones skin again. Been on several dates since Feb, and starting to realize that my main concern are my kids. I will continue to date however i am focusing less on finding someone else for my life and more on finding my place in this world(michael w smith song). Dating is fun but one should go into dating with the right mind set. This may take 2 months or 20 years. have not been as much due to job and having fun with my angels. so to new members contemplating dating take it slow and realize it has pros and cons.
Candyman