Yuku free message boards
Username or E-mail:
Password:
Forgot
Password?
Sign Up
Grab the Yuku app
Search:
Divorce Care and Support
>
General
>
Post Divorce Dating...(this may be a Ramble)
0 Points
Search this Topic:
Remove this ad
Public Forum
DCS Information
DCS Suggestions and Complaints
Current Events
Spiritual Stuff
General
Swap Meet
Around The House
Prayer List
Re: Post Divorce Dating...(this may be a Ramble)
Author
Comment
iwontgiveyoumyname73
Post Divorce Dating...(this may be a Ramble)
#1
[-]
Posts
: 661
Sep 4 08 12:23 PM
Reply
Quote
More
My Recent Posts
Personally, my dating experiences taught me so much about what I needed to do to get my act together in my life. It was a harsh lesson, and certainly very embarrassing as well, but I am sure glad I learned it.
I certainly don't suggest going out and dating a ton of people, but I do suggest being honest with yourself and with who you're dating....don't tell people what they want to hear, it's unfair and confusing.
In my personal experience, I found that there were some things that I would never have figured out needed "worked on" until being in a relationship. And then I found that different things come up with different people, and no amount of advanced planning could have prepared me for that. What is important is to find someone that has realistic expectations that things may come up from time to time, and to be realistic yourself about the other person's issues. Baggage doesn't have to ruin or keep you from a relationship, it's how someone deals with that baggage that is the key. To think you'll find someone that doesn't have baggage is ridiculous, it's all in finding someone that can deal with that baggage constructively.
Public Forum
DCS Information
DCS Suggestions and Complaints
Current Events
Spiritual Stuff
General
Swap Meet
Around The House
Prayer List
Share This
Email to Friend
del.icio.us
Digg it
Facebook
Blogger
Yahoo MyWeb
Divorce Care and Support
>
General
>
Post Divorce Dating...(this may be a Ramble)
Click to subscribe by RSS
Click to receive E-mail notifications of replies