when ppl become members of DCS they do it knowing its a public message board so they are taking the risk that someone they know may read it
I was the one who brought up the subject of some safety here. This is because I was very surprised when my stbx mentioned "the divorce site" in a conversation....otherwise I wouldn't have said anything. Anyone who has my same experience with their stbx knows there is really very little you can do anyway. But it doesn't diminish the wishing it weren't so. If I'm here, I'm not going to be so cryptic it isn't worth even posting, but...you can't blame me for throwing out the suggestion.
Just a mere member of the vast flock...(baaaaaah), Sky