Thank you for all the responses. This is one of those cases where DCS makes things seem more clear.


Bob,-

Thanks for clarifying this so well. It is important to consider how this will affect others at church because if they are uncomfortable then the relationships will get more strained and artificial. Yuck. Yes the ex is a hypocrite. He acknowleges that he doesn't believe in God, just feels like going is a good thing to do, looks right, is what his mother would approve of - although she doesn't believe in God either.....

Maggie, Navy, Chica, Beth, Bosco, THank you for the responses!


I think I should go explore other churches by myself at first and then bring the kids when I find something. I actually thought about that last weekend but went anyway.. Also my mom goes to this church with me (because of me) and she would probably move with me. So I even have someone to go with when I look. My friend and my sister both go to churches across town.

Thanks again,

Julia