Cassie--

It is so tough when the kids like your X's new partner. It bothered me, too--and I too felt weird about it......after all, isn't it good that your kids feel comfortable enough to refer to the new "significant adults" in their lives in a caring way??? I did the same thing--bit my tongue and called my sister....and am glad I did.

On the other hand...6 weeks away from home...wow--that's a lot.

Take care.