Thank You it helps to have a place to speak. I was lucky to get a grant for school and am hoping for another that will help with rent and such. My credit is in shambles due to no support so doubt getting another vehicle though my lawer is requesting my stbx replace with one of equal value. STBX purchased another vehicle for him and his paramour and told me they are buying a house. We have been married over 30 years and his paramour is young enought to be his daughter she is 32 or 33. I was able to qualify for foodstamps only but thats another story in itself. All this came out of the blue at me as there were no warning signs he just up and left.