| From: nikon | Sent: 8/2/2007 9:31 PM |
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Good for you Coyote and I agree....you would think people got by the gay/straight/black/white
thing by now.
But, didn't you get the memo from some in the DCS heirarchy .... gay men are fine cause they
cut hair nice......gay women though are gross and disgusting and cannot be tolerated cause they happen to sleep with other women.
Even my counsin, the female lawyer, and her significant other, the female doctor. they adopted two
wonderful children. In the eyes of these folks, even though they have never met them, they are just two dikes, not a doctor and a lawyer trying to
make the world a better place.
You know what, come to think of it, I think they are right, shoot the doctor and the lawyer and
god save the flaming hair dresser.
To be clear, I honetly don't mind gay hairdressers or gay men for that matter. What do I care
what consenting adults do behind closed doors. I don't like homosexuality thrown in my face and i don't like heterosexually thrown in my
face either.
I have however been known to gag if I see two women walk down the street holding hands. And yes,
last christmas when I spotted my cousin discretely put her arm around her friend as a way to thank her for coming to see my entire family (they are
busy and it was the first time i had seen her in a few years) I did manage to throw my shrimp at them before I made it to the bathroom to
puke.
You would think coyote, that we would have gotten by the gay/straight/black/white issue ..
unfortaunately..some people are just stupid.
jim
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I started to respond to this @ DCS but I do not want to hijack Coyotes post however I do wish to respond so I'm doing it on Suggestions and Complaints, since I'm going to assume I'm the DCS hierarchy mentioned.
While I do not feel the need to defend myself to the likes of u, I do however feel the need to stop you from labeling gay men as being good for giving haircuts and this is not the first time u have done it and this is not the first time u pressume to know how I feel on the subject.
I been aroud DCC for 6 years in those 6 years I have shared with my adventures with one particular gay friend who I have known for more years than I care to remember.
Yes he has fixed my hair, he has redone my makeup when he thought I could look pretteir, and on one ocassion he deemed it necessary to throw out all the lingerie that he consider not sexy buh bye granny panties for the days I wanna be comfy, I have also cried on his lap holding unto him for dear life when my life has gone to hell, he took me out drinking when Bobby left for college the first time and he has spent nights just scratching my back when I wanted to give up he has been the best friend a woman or a man could ever have.
He is also has been the most respectfull man I have ever met, when out in public with him he has never made a pass at anyone, he has never commented on anyone being hot, anyones ass or anything of the like.(and for the record neither do I when out with him ) I have met his gay friends and for the most part love them all they are friends and all very good ones, and yes they are gay guys but unlike u I don't label them at every chance they are friends period nothing more.
I am not going to generalize about lesbians, because I don't know every lesbian there is BUT in my expereince the lesbians I have met (and I went to an all girls school, high school and college, my parents God bless them, so I met many) have no problem making passes at straight woman, something I have found not only uncomfortable and intimidating but also quite scary in real life and in the cyber world.
A lot of men (again not generalizing ) find it quite erotic to be in bed with 2 women and some women give into that to please men I would not find it erotic or stimulating to have a naked womans anything touch any part of me, again a lot of men seem to think thats very cool and there is nothing to it BUT ask the same man if they would get in bed with one woman and 2 men and for the most part the response would be HELLL NO thats gay!!!
I have never in chat or anywhere else reffer to lesbians as gross , I find the act gross but then again I find many things so call ''straight and normal' ppl also gross . My own bf came up the other night with a proposition that ended with a HELLLL NOOOO and if u ever ask me that again u better be prepared to say buh bye to me now , doesn't mean that now I find all staight males gross it means that there are certain lines that I have never cross nor will I cross. I'm glad ur so enlighten that nothing bothers u me on the other hand have certain boundaries. lines or prejudices if u want to call them that which I will never cross if that makes me stupid well it's what I can live with and I have no problem sleeping at nigh.
I'm a polite person, I will admit that more so in real life than in the cyber world I do not if I can avoid it make anyone feel bad about thier race or sexual orientation however I do have a problem with unwaranted sexual avances from lesbians or straight men, Straight men for the most part are more understaning that no means no, the lesbians I have met in real life and in the cyber world have had a harder time taking no for an answer ....how do u know u won;t like it if u havent tried it??? Is not something that keeps me up night I wont period, if that makes me a lesbianholic so be it.
Maybe I am wrong and if I am I will apologize in advance but ur post seems to be putting words in my mouth I am the DCS hierarchy u mention and I did not label anyone stupid, gross nor will they be tolerated , I have never labeled another woman stupid for sleeping with another woman or gross but I have label the act gross and I have never said lesbians wont be tolerated but again I will not now or ever tolerate another woman making advances towards me when I have never invited them..
One would think than in the year 2007 one is allowed to have an opinion without being labeled stupid or intolerant I will agree that there are some lesbains out there that do not make passes at straight woman they find atractive to this day I have not met any and till the day comes that u have someone who takes advanage of the fact that ur passed out at a party and tries to take advantage of u and will not understand no or someone in the cyber world who doesn't understand NO I'm not comfortable undressing u even if it's just pretend don't label some ppl as stupid because they are not as enlightened as u.




