Unfortunatly I won't be posting anymore at least for a long while. I plan to remain a member for a time - this sight has such good resources and I enjoy
reading the posts - but since the key logger installation on my pc my husband is now reading everything I write and every response I receive. (and I'm
sure he will see this as well)
So much I would like to add but feel I can't. In a nutshell though I have been told I am being selfish to want a divorce. Selfish to want to be happy on
my own. Selfish to not stay for my children. Selfish to feel that I am past wanting or needing to work it out.
I know that financially it's stupid, emotionally it's painful but things have to be this way. If things stay as they are then I can never be
anything more than comfortably numb inside - and that's not good enough. I think my kids, I know my kids can handle it and feel they will be better off
with a mom who is happy. But I guess in a way it is selfish, but the constraints and demands of someone wanting to keep a relationship going that is dead are
just as selfish if not more so.
Thanks for everything people. Your insights and advice have been great.




