First of all Marj thanks for the talk lastnight ..............I actually got some sleep.....
Next thing..... My ex has just recently informed me that he is moving to oklahoma....yesterday he asked me if he could take Melaney for a few weeks in
July...to spend some time with her.....
When he first told me about his move i was crying because i didnt think Melaney would see him again now i am crying because im nervous about my 7 year old
leaving for 4 weeks.....and having crazy thoughts like omg he is going to kidnap my child and I will never see her again. He wouldnt do that but i just cant
help thinking that... or what if she gets hurt and i am not there .... anyway i guess what i would like to know is how all you single mothers with children
that have fathers out of state cope with sending off your children for summer visits......
How do you get thru it without having a complete mental breakdown.........
Any advice ............. this kind of visitation is all very new to me ...............




