Ok, I posted on here that the kids are with their dad for their 6 week visit, and also that their dad remarried
last week. That part I don't care about. But I called and talked to my kids last night, and they referred to her as mom. this is a new development just
this week. I know that they know i am their mom. She has 2 kids too, so when they are all together, maybe it is easier to just refer to her that way. She is
going to be a mother figure to them. In my rational mind, I get it. But my emotional self cracked big time when I heard them call her that. I am their MOM!!
Not her. My kids have accidentally called my boyfriend dad, then catch themselves adn correct it, and its not a big deal. I told them they have a dad, but if
they end up calling my bf dad, it's not a huge deal, but i wanted to make sure I talked to them about it. I KNOW my ex is the one telling them and
encouraging them to call her mom. It is just another stab at me, and I am not letting him know it bothers me.
I am surprised at how much it does bother me though. It really threw me for a loop.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Cassie




